If she can't or won't consider that the church is a lie, you need to move on because this relationship can't go anywhere. That's my two cents.
Those will make her damin.
I was convinced that if I didn't move to be with him we would never have a shot at a real relationship because his training would take so long - residency.
Be thankful that you chose a man with passion and drive; realizing that his energies will not always focused on you.