My dear faithful LDS aunt married a good non-member man.
I follow a blogger who is a nurse and her stories are gut-wrenching. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you.
Better than freezing up and avoiding them altogether. In her obviously orthodox Mormon paradigm dad's a bishop, she went to BYU and on a missionunderstand that she believes her husband must be an orthodox Mormon and get married to her in the temple.