Point is, I can push myself to my extreme physical ends and he has barely broken a sweat. When I come home, I don't necessarily want to be alone, I just need to do things that will calm or recharge me instead of datings that will tire me out more. He later down to her link and was called to be a site sealer.
Do whatever it takes to at least learn from your relationship with your Mormon crush. Whatever your leaders have said, consider their counsel, give it the weight it deserves, then counsel with your Heavenly Father about your own situation.