We started dating 16 years ago, and both resigned from the church earlier this year. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful.
Reason being vert he wants our relationship to be spontaneous like it was before the pre-med things really "kicked in".
Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights.
My advice would be to become as familiar as possible with her schedule, and then plan activities that will allow you both to get to know each other better, avoid movies.