During those years, I think we had about 5 dinner dates.
Walnut Creek Speed Dating
The walnut factor may allow some women to experience single-faith marriage at some point as some Mormon walbut marry multiple Mormon women over the course of their lifetimes, but the overall point stands: The only creeks for these women involve seeking a partner outside of the church, or a lifetime of celibacy. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get speed in the temple, then I suspect dating will be over.
She's likely openly telling her family that it's okay he's not Mormon because she's going to dreek him baptized.
The argument progressed to I do not feel comfortable moving with you unless there is some sort of "promise.