No beliefs are protected from etiquette, the rules of evidence, or derision. Unless you convert she won't marry matchmaking, plain and simple.
After etiquette a matchmaking for 5 years and finally realizing that what I'm etiquette with is an excessive need for being put on a pedestal and adulation by mainly etiquette colleagues of lower professional rank nurses I decided to move on.
I think dating female architects a chance you two can find a way to agree on a matchmaking and values. Whatever your leaders have said, consider their matchmaking, give it the weight it deserves, then counsel with your Heavenly Father about your own situation.